I think that since I just discussed the issues that arose
from one little thing that makes me sad, that I should counter with the things
I am looking forward to. Because
there are more of those.
I am looking forward to some silly little things. Cheesy His and Hers towels. Hers and Hers never fit us. His and Hers was always better, and now
it’s actually right. I am looking
forward to calling him my hubby, since “spouse” never had that intimate feel to
it.
I am already enjoying being out in public and not being
perceived as a gay couple. We are
just a couple! We can share a
regular coupley kiss without the worry that someone will speak up from taking
offense to us being so gay in public. Roundabout equality, and I am in a position to appreciate it.
More than anything, I am looking forward to Kaden feeling
better about himself. To feel like
he fits inside his skin. To be so confidant
and full of swagger! Oh swagger is
coming, make no doubt about it. I
am really, really looking forward to swagger.
Just commenting to say that this blog is great! As a trans man who came out to my partener around a year ago I only realized from reading your blog how much saying "I could just not do this" could hurt my girlfriend. A thanks from me for showing the world that coming out does not mean ending a relationship,
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading and for your kind words.
DeleteI am so glad that I was able to help you. If this blog helps just one person, mission more than accomplished.
Coming out definitely does not mean ending a relationship. I do think that a relationship needs to be strong to take the stress though. If you can't get through hard things together, then you probably can't get through life together.
Much love <3
Get that swagger on. Yyyeeeaaahhh
ReplyDeleteHeck yeah swagger!
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